Sunday, March 14, 2010

What do men think?
I took so much interest in reading psychology in my second year that everything in my day to day life then, i used to relate to one or the other theory taught in the class. i bugged my roomate so much that she devised a mechanism to bring down my passion, she started asking me questions. Most of the times i found the questions were one liner, but their answers seemed so complex or unknown. She asked me questions like, ' why do you think the teacher reacted that way that day? ', 'which theory explains the 'losing charm in other person' concept?', 'why do we sometimes dont say things even when we know about them' - i tried managing answering them in the beginning but then i felt i did not know the correct answers most of the time and gave up. Soon realization sprinted upon me that life is too simple and at the same time too complex to be analyzed. Result: I stopped talking about psychology.

Yesterday when i was looking at the spring-summer collection of 'code' in oasis mall, i found a long queue of girls waiting for getting into the rest room. Psychology came back to me. I was astonished at the fact that equal number of men were standing there- cold blooded, similar to statues (or) pillars of stones with absolutely no expressions on their faces (atleast the statues give an everlasting expression). They had accompanied their girls for shopping and now were cursing themselves for having come there (I felt so). I heard one saying 'pick any colour, all look sooo good on you, why are we wasting time here' for which there was some long reply and at the end of the conversation, the guy's face was red.

I have observed the same kind of expression whenever i hav encountered situations like these
a. when the girl is talking to a group of other girls and the guy is standing next to her
b. when she is negotiating for something very important according to her
c. when the girl is asking a long question
d. when she is describing something very abstract
e. when the girl asks for opinions
i really dont know what men think during these times to give such expressions.

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